A Commonly Neglected Ingredient in Mentoring

May 20, 2010 - Mac Lake - Leadership Development, Mentoring

As I was reading through 2 Timothy 1 it struck me that Paul told Timothy, ” I constantly remember you in my prayers.”  I don’t think he was simply praying, “God bless Timothy”.  Paul understood that Timothy was young and facing some pretty intense ministry pressure in Ephesus.  So undoubtedly he was praying for God to deepen Timothy’s courage, increase his leadership insights, expand his influence, and whatever else Timothy needed to exercise effective spiritual leadership.

When mentoring a young leader I’m looking for God to use the ink of my experiences to write leadership wisdom on their heart.  But it’s not enough to simply instruct, be a role model and share our experience with young leaders.  We must pray for them and seek to understand the specifics of what God is doing in their lives.  Mentoring is not a two way process…it is a three way process that includes God. It‘s GOD using YOU to shape THEM. Young leaders are susceptible to pride, the lure of power, foolish mistakes and giving up when discouraged. So it’s through prayer that God can give you a deeper understanding into their developmental needs.  If I look at mentoring simply as a two way relationship, then I may miss the dynamics of how God wants to use me in their life.

As you meet with the young leaders you are mentoring don’t neglect asking them, “What’s God doing in your life and how can I pray for you?”

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Mac Lake


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6 responses to A Commonly Neglected Ingredient in Mentoring

  1. This is a great point! In my Biblical counseling course the very first thing we learned was that our counseling must be completely dependant upon the Holy Spirit to guide us. It would seem this is true in mentoring as well.

  2. Great word. Honestly was just considering this. Influence is definitely a three way operation. 🙂 Appreciate the insight.

  3. Mark Justin Josephs May 20, 2010 at 3:35 pm

    I was just studying this for our father-son group. How we influence our sons is definitely a God-Father-Son operation. Thanks.

  4. Easy to get so busy with the work of the Lord that we lose sight of the Lord of the work if we’re not careful. Great reminder. Thanks!

  5. Ironically, prayer is often overlooked when we get busy even doing ministry work. It must be the cornerstone of everything we do. As frustrating and exhausting mentoring is at times, it is through prayer that the Holy Spirit reveals Himself and carries us. It just doesn’t work effectively without it.

  6. i think that is the difference between mentoring and discipleship. good people can make the mistake of drawling people to themselves rather than Christ, which is once again is the heart of discipleship.

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